What came first:
THE CHICKEN OR THE EGG?
I read an article recently that proposed a similar question only it wasn’t about food; it was about our success…
What comes first:
HAPPINESS OR SUCCESS?
I’m sure if I were to take a poll, we’d be sitting at 50/50 – but I want to explain why it’s critical that we all subscribe to the same answer:
If happiness doesn’t come first, success is fleeting.
No matter how successful we become, if we are not happy independently of that success, eventually we will find a way to discredit even the most esteemed successes.
WHY DO WE SET GOALS?
We set them because we want to be successful – we want to HAVE, POSSES or BE something… but beyond that…we want to feel a certain way.
The desire for an emotion is far greater than the desire for the actual thing. (Tweet This)
We want to feel [insert emotion here]. Examples: happy, confident, connected, inspired….
So why do we wait? Why do we put off being happy, confident and contected? Why do we believe that until we have, possess or are something we don’t get to feel the way we want to feel.
Let’s say you want to back a cake…you need ingredients first: you need the sugar, the flour, and the eggs. Once you have all of those items together, along with your efforts, you are able to produce the cake. Your feelings are the ingredients you need to produce your happiness.
WHAT IF WE LIVED WITH DELIBERATE HAPPINESS?
I have this system at work. It’s an automated system that runs every hour. Each hour it pulls documents from a folder that resides on a server. The folder contains orders that have been entered by outside sales reps. The system will pull anything in the folder. It doesn’t know (or care) if the orders are entered correctly; it pulls the order because it’s what’s in the folder. Which in turn drops into our system, and we on the inside carry out the demands of the order. If the order is entered incorrectly – then the product is produced incorrectly.
That’s what the universe does; the universe scans your folder (which in your case contains feelings and vibrations instead of orders) and whatever it finds it uses as ingredients to construct the situations and circumstances of your life. So why on earth would you give the universe bad ingredients?
BAD INGREDIENTS = BAD CIRCUMSTANCES
In every possible moment of the day we need to be thinking about, and feeling the way we hope to feel once we “get what we want,” because…
It’s highly likely that if we FEEL the way we want to feel…the byproduct of that feeling will be the realization of the thing we want.